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About positive psychology
Here’s a loaded question. How satisfied are you with
your life. Be honest with yourself… where would you place yourself on
the spectrum of life satisfaction?  For those on the left side in the red zone,
traditional psychology diagnoses problems and provide solutions. Vast
amounts of research have gone into identifying and understanding mental
disorders ranging from mild ailments to severe depression and into the
formation and evaluation of psychotherapeutic treatments. But what about the people who aren’t depressed, but aren’t fully satisfied either—the people in the yellow zone
between red and green. Life is OK – but that’s about all. Do we just
accept this middle ground, or is there something we can do to move to
the right into the green zone? For people who are already doing well, are there actions that can move them even further into the green zone? What does it mean to flourish? How do we achieve the good life? The Science of Positive Psychology This
is precisely where positive psychology fits in. It is the science of
what’s right in life. It helps us understand what makes life worth
living. It gives us effective ways to make life more fulfilling and
satisfying. If traditional psychology is the science for the red zone, positive psychology is the science for the green zone. It is the science
behind positive psychology that differentiates this field from the
shelves of self-help books and DVDs that promise to turn your life
around. Self-help resources are often based on folk-wisdom and/or
personal experiences that may or may not work for everyone else. In the
short period since positive psychology took form while Martin Seligman
was president of the American Psychological Association, leading
psychologists around the world have tested and retested many ideas
about well-being. They have also run controlled studies to see which
suggested actions really do work. It makes sense to work on
well-being: studies show that people who are happy are more successful
across many domains including careers, romantic relationships, and
health. The Set Point Of
course, genetics and life circumstances do play a role in determining
your lot in life. According to leading psychologist Sonya Lyubormirsky,
genetics accounts for about 50% of the variation in happiness across
populations, and differences in circumstances account for only about
10% more. The good news is the remaining 40% is accounted for by
differences in thought patterns and behaviors, things that are under
our control. With effort, persistence and knowledge about what really
works, we can build new habits that make us happier. The goal of
positive psychology is to give people the knowledge to pursue the good
life, thus deliberately migrating towards the conditions at the far end
of the green zone. How Does One Achieve the Good Life There
are at least four pathways that bring people closer to the good life.
They all play a major role in increasing happiness. - When
you savor the present, are grateful for the past, are hopeful for the
future, and love the people around you, you are experiencing positive emotion, the first pathway to happiness.
- When
you do what you do best, when you are absorbed in activities that use
your strengths and demand that you grow in ability, you are engaged, the second pathway to happiness.
- When
you are involved in activities that you believe matter to the world
beyond yourself, you are experiencing the third pathway to happiness:
your life is full of meaning.
- When you are surrounded by loving and supportive positive relationships, you are experiencing the fourth pathway to happiness.
Underlying each of these pathways is the principle of using your strengths and personal values to develop into a full, complex, unique, and contributing individual. Summary From
Positive Psychology, we know that people have the ability to change
their lives for the better. It may take effort and persistence, but it
is possible. A growing body of empirical evidence identifies the
actions that are worth taking because they really do make a difference.
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